Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Life is short, investigate an affair

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Credit card statements for restaurants you’ve never been to. Phone bills with unexplained long-distance calls. Trips to “the barber” that take…hours? The signs may be subtle or suddenly knock you over with the realization that your partner or husband could be cheating on you. What do you do now? Find out for sure! Bill Mitchell’s new book, The More You Know--Getting the Evidence and Support You Need to Investigate a Troubled Relationship is a supportive, step-by-step guide that could save your marriage.

“If you suspect, even just a little,” says Mitchell, “that your partner or husband may be cheating on you, you’re living a life of doubt and suspicion that can eat away at you. Any form of adultery puts your life on hold and your finances at risk. You owe it to yourself to find out for sure.”

Mitchell, the “7-Day Detective,” helps you get results in as little as one week.

A licensed private investigator with three decades of experience, he cares about his clients. He helps his clients successfully cope with the reality of infidelity. “What I do in my practice and what I have designed this book to do,” says Mitchell, “is empower women to make decisions, based on fact, that are best for them.”

Whether your partner is starting to wander off or involved in a full-blown affair, it’s better to find out sooner rather than later--and on your terms. Mitchell’s book helps you stay in control, pace yourself, and get the proof you need through an easy, step-by-step action plan.

Mitchell and his work have been featured on the Fox News, Today Show, The Early Show, and Dr. Phil Show. He is heralded by the national media—Ladies Home Journal, Baltimore Sun, Esquire, Chicago Tribune, and more--for his cutting edge and compassionate approach to the crisis of adultery. Mitchell quickly uncovers the truth, wins courtroom decisions, brings closure, and rebuilds lives. The More You Know shows readers how to get the same breakthrough results with the techniques he uses every day.

If you’re living with the pain of not knowing, Mitchell shows you exactly how to quickly take charge of the situation and your life. You’ll learn: what relationships are most at risk, the eight most common warning signs, what to do first and why, insider techniques, investigative strategies that get answers, and--most importantly--how to recover emotionally, financially, and socially.

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Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Infidelity Suspected? Get help now!

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Thursday, January 8, 2009

The More You Know - Dr. Phil Featured Book

I stumbled upon this book a while back on Dr. Phil's web site.

Since Dr. Phil is known worldwide for his "relationship advice" through his T.V. show and his own vast array of relationship and self help books, I thought that The More You Know might be a worthwhile read. Dr. Phil wouldn't risk his reputation by representing a dud book would he?

Well, I have finally had the time to download and read this book from cover to cover and I have to say, Dr. Phil didn't let me down!

The More You Know by private investigator Bill Mitchell, is indeed an excellent book and definitely worth recommending! I would not hesitate to say that it is probably the most practical, informative and helpful book that I have read on the subject of infidelity.


The first thing that "hit me" about this 104 page book was the man, Bill Mitchell himself. He does not come off as some hot shot, shyster P.I. who makes his living from other people's suffering.

Quite the contrary.

He defends and admires the institution of marriage. Instead, he seems a very genuine, very caring man who believes that early intervention can help to rescue a relationship from the devastation of infidelity. He understands and the trauma caused by cheating spouse and likens it to the pain of dealing with a death in the family.

(He's right, I've been there. I sometimes felt it would have been easier if my husband had actually died!) He points out very clearly, the negative effects that adultery has not only on the adults but particularly on the children. Too often, the kids are not even considered. They are victims too!

Bill Mitchell's book deals with the subject of adultery knowledgeably and compassionately. He shares years of wisdom and insight that begins with your first suspicions. He tells you what relationships are at risk and what the eight most common warning signs of infidelity are. He will explain to you how he does his job and tell you what you can do to help yourself.

He provides you with the facts and resources you need to discover, react to and resolve your situation - by doing what is best for you! I am not going to ramble on about what's in this book or why you should buy it.

I will tell you that The More You Know is not just "another" book about infidelity written from a victim's or a counselor's point of view. The information presented is backed by statistics, scientific facts and years of wisdom. Everything you need to know is in there.


Bill Mitchell gives it to you straight and, for $20.00 a book, you know he didn't write it to get rich!

I even give him "kudos" for his information on "Adultery and the Church". Hit the nail right on the head with that one.

Get it…you won't be sorry!

If I could give it more than five stars…I would.

Learn More at http://www.7daydetective.com/books.html


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Wednesday, December 17, 2008

The (manufactured) dangers of the office holiday party

Craig Silverman, December 16, 2008 at 11:04 AM EST [posted this brilliant observation at glodeandmail.com website and confirms my infidelity advice.]

http://business.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20081216.WBtheoffice20081216110423/WBStory/WBtheoffice


Imagine for a moment that this isn't the Year of the Cancelled or Scaled-Back Office Party. Great news, right? Not according to some experts. Granted, embarrassing things happen at the office holiday party: bad dancing, drunken colleagues, make-out sessions etc.

But a couple of experts want you to view the gathering as a breeding ground for sinister behaviour.

Take it away “infidelity expertRuth Houston, author of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs: The annual Christmas party is prime time for a work spouse relationship to make the transition to a workplace affair.

Fortified by a few drinks, one work spouse may say or do something to their work husband or work wife that could lay the groundwork for taking their work spouse relationship to the next level. Your presence at your spouse or significant other's office Christmas party could keep their work spouse relationship from turning into a workplace affair …If you suspect your spouse or significant other of being romantically involved with someone at work, make sure you accompany the suspected cheater to the annual Christmas party at his or her job.

Since company Christmas parties have a way of exposing workplace affairs, this is the best way to find out if what you suspect is true. Attend the festivities with the suspected cheater and you're sure to find out.Observing the suspected cheater interact with his or her opposite sex co-workers in a social setting like the office Christmas party will either confirm your suspicions, or set your mind at ease. If he or she is romantically involved with someone they work with, their behavior and body language around each other will give them away, even in little ways. But knowing what to look for is the key.If you want to receive a free tip sheet about what to look for, you can e-mail mailto:mitchellreports@bellsouth.net with "What to Look For – b1" in the subject line. That'll ensure you enjoy yourself at the party.

Next we go from infidelity to sexual harassment.

Here's some advice from Gayla Crain, founding shareholder of law firm Spencer Crain Cubbage Healy & McNamara: It is not uncommon for some employees to forget their office behavior standards at company holiday parties. In a social setting, an employee may feel more at ease in pursuing another employee in a personal, romantic manner. Making matters worse is that, as a 2006 survey of HR professionals by the Society for Human Resource Management showed, an estimated 70% of respondents said that drinking is accepted at their organizations' holiday parties.

Employers receiving any complaints of inappropriate behavior at the holiday party should take such complaints seriously and should take prompt, effective steps to address the complaint. This is particularly true if someone complains during the party or if a witness reports an inappropriate incident during the party. The bottom line is that an effective complaint procedure, if properly drafted and implemented, can be extremely valuable in defending against sex harassment charges – no matter what happens at the office party.”

At the risk of making it seem as though I'm trivializing these issues – and let me say that they are serious – I'll point out the fact that this advice is issued in press releases aimed at raising the profile of the experts. There's an element of self-interest here.

So, all that to say that if you're lucky enough to get a company holiday party this year, heed some timeless advice: don't drink too much, don't try to make out with anybody, and don't drive drunk.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Infidelity Discovered? 10 Ways to Calm Your Powerful Feelings

Infidelity Discovered? 10 Ways to Calm Your Powerful Feelings
by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach

When you find out about the affair, the first few hours, days and weeks can be emotionally wrenching to say the least. Or, if someone you deeply care about begins "pulling away" you may also experience intense feelings. Read through this list and pick out a couple things you can do to help yourself during these times.


1. Walk. Run, if you are fit enough to run. Work out. Get the blood flowing. Physical exercise drains off the adrenaline and physically you feel better. You also think better of yourself because you are caring for you.

2. Talk. If you typically handle problems by talking them out, find someone who will listen as you pour out your heart. Give them explicit instructions: "I need to talk, vent, cry, rage, and question. Just look me in the eye, nod your head and listen."

3. Write. Get a kitchen timer. Set it for 5 minutes. Spend that time writing...anything, everything that comes to your mind. Don't censor. When the bell goes off say to yourself, "OK, there it is. Now I need to get on to other things. I will come back later and write more." Put the writing in a safe place or destroy it.

4. Find a safe place and spend some time there. Do you have a favorite lake, wooded area, park, room, chair where you feel safe and can "get away." Intentionally spend some time there.

5. Use good "self talk." Tell yourself, "You are ok. You will be ok. This too shall pass. What you are feeling is normal and will not destroy you." Develop that "observing part" that can speak to your turmoil.

6. Pray. Meditate. Use your spiritual resources, if you have them. If you don't have them, it can be a good time to develop them. Spirituality often affirms your worth and enables you to see the larger picture.

7. Be aware. Notice what you are thinking, how you are feeling and what you are doing. Pay close attention to these chunks of your life. Just noticing often creates distance from the emotional pain.

8. Encourage the rhythm of your feelings. Your feelings will come and go, often as in waves. There will be lulls and sometimes they crash. Notice the intensity and frequency of the waves.

9. Get professional help. Supportive therapy might be helpful. Personal and professional coaching, often via telephone, is a helpful phenomenon that is increasingly popular as a way to find support and direction for specific problems.

10. Gather resources. Start reading, exploring the internet and talking to people about your situation. Believe me, you are not alone. Many people have walked your path (well, not exactly your path, but close) and are there to offer their understanding and point out the bends and turns of your road.

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Tuesday, December 9, 2008

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Adultery: Statistics on Cheating Spouses

Adultery statistics are hard to come by, especially honest and controlled statistics. According to the electronic article “Adultery: Statistics on Cheating Spouses,” published by Eagle’s Nest Publications, “60-70 percent of adultery victims are women” while “30-40 percent of adultery victims are men.” Adultery is usually one of the top reasons cited for divorce and with modern technology and readily available sex partners, it doesn’t seem like this trend will slow any time soon.

The definition of adultery is consensual sexual intercourse with a partner that is not your husband or wife. According to the 2003 United Nations World Fertility Reports, 89% of all women and men get married by the age of 49. However, not all marriages follow the monogamy rule. Anthropological studies have reported that 80-85% of societies allowed polygamous marriage. It is a well-known fact that the early Mormons practiced Polygamy. However, most men in societies are not able to afford multiple wives so the average societal marriage involves one man and one woman.

Adultery stories have been a part of history since the beginning of time. Adultery is clearly forbidden in the seventh commandment of the Ten Commandments and is punishable by death. Jesus preached it was a sin. However, in the past, only a married woman engaging in sex with another man counted as adultery in which case both the woman and the man were considered guilty. Nevertheless, this attitude has spread to married men who are now looked down upon and may be punished by laws if they cheat on their wives.In some cultures, the punishment for adultery results in the death penalty, some penalties being as brutal has stoning the guilty party to death.

In various countries adultery is illegal and in the United States adultery laws vary from state to state.When a person files for divorce on the grounds of adultery, they must provide as much proof as possible to prove the validity of the affair. If the divorce is contested, then it is up to the accusing party to provide dates, times and any other admissible evidence.Adultery can affect the negotiation of the divorce process by setting off hurt, anger and resentment. Infidelity most affects divorce in the negotiation process.

Rarely does infidelity fail to set off negative and painful emotions from the cheated on party.Unfortunately, adultery seems to be a part of our society. Whether we decide to partake in it or work on trying to keep it out of our lives, it is a personal decision we choose and we must live with the consequences.

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